 |
|
|
Wedding Center Piece Wedding articles about-us contact |
|
|
|
Wedding
Centerpieces |
|
|
|
Helping The Control Freak Plan The Wedding
Helping The Control Freak Plan The Wedding by: Sher Matsen
My daughter and fiancé have finally set the “big day” but now comes the fun part of helping the control freak plan the wedding. The control freak being my daughter. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m really looking forward to helping my daughter and I’m accustomed to her control freak nature. This could be a really fun experience if you look at the right way. I’ll just sit back and do what I’m told when I’m told. If you’ve ever known a control freak you’ll know what I’m talking about. These people simply can’t give up control of any aspect of their lives. They must always be in control, so the title “control freak” is rightfully earned. Now helping a control freak plan a wedding, can you imagine, after all everything is going to have to be perfectly controlled. Anything gone wrong is liable to land in quite a burst of verbal displeasure. Now as the helper you have some choices. You can either step back and find the situation quite amusing and thus keep your sanity. Or you can get drug into the chaos and panic and loose your sanity. I’m opting for the amusing approach. Watching a control freak plan their wedding is rather like watching a juggler with about 12 extra balls. Your just waiting for one to drop! And eventually one will and all you can do is be their to pick up the pieces. It all began with choosing the “perfect date.” Now a sane person would wonder what does a perfect date look like, but a control freak spends hours going through each month and each date listing the pros and cons until they are satisfied they have found the perfect date. God help us all if the weather decides to not co-operate. But that’s okay after a few stressful day my control freak daughter has decided that August 16th 2006 will be a perfect day. To the sane person it will be a perfect day no matter what goes wrong, but to my control freak daughter all I can hope is that the day is truly perfect in every way! Well our next mission was the gown and if you have never shopped with a control freak you will not understand how amusing this can be. At least from the view point I’ve chosen to take. Grant it some moments are enough to make your hair stand up and shout “Stop you’re driving me crazy.” A couple of deep breaths and the amusement returns. A normal soul will know that there is no such thing as the perfect wedding dress or the perfectly fitted wedding dress right off the rack. Yes a wedding dress can become perfect but it may take some alterations. Shopping for that wedding gown with a control freak leads to comments such as the sleeves are too puffy, the train slides just a little to the right, the v neck is ½” from perfect, the …..Well you get the picture. They are looking for perfect by definition in their brain. Many of the gowns my daughter tried on were perfect as far as I could tell. She looked beautiful, breathtaking, and sexy all the things a bride should be. But to her it was not “perfect.” As luck would have it one bridal show as she shifted through the gowns this beautiful dress jumped out at her. When she tried it on it fit her perfectly and not only by my definition but by her own. Not an alteration needed, not a tuck, not a hem. It was infact perfect. So you see even the control freak can find a perfect gown. Our last adventure was in locating the perfect place for a reception. My control freak daughter has yet to find the place that makes her feel safe and in control. Thankfully she still has time and as luck goes I’m certain we will find that perfect place. I’m sure they’ll be plenty more highlights before she has her wedding planned. The message here is not to make fun or chastise the control freak, after all we all have our faults, but rather to point out that no matter how stressed you become while planning your wedding it will all come together. Besides I believe every future bride turns into a control freak to some degree when planning their wedding.
Parents' Roles In A Wedding If you're a parent, your son or daughter's wedding day is the day that you've simultaniously dreaded and looked foward to ever since the day they were born. On one hand, you may be excited that your child is about to embark on a whole new life, on the ....... Caribbean Getaways: When to Go? Considering a romantic getaway, honeymoon or destination wedding in the Caribbean? After selecting your island, the question most on your mind is when to travel. PRICE The Caribbean offers plenty of ....... A Wedding Shower Invitation Should Be Attractive And Stylish! Wedding shower invitations should lay out all of the necessary information, yet still be attractive. One way to do this is to have a picture engraved on the invitation. Ask your engraver to add a sm....... Helping The Control Freak Plan The Wedding My daughter and fiancé have finally set the “big day” but now comes the fun part of helping the control freak plan the wedding. The control freak being my daughter. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m reall....... Have a Simple, Small, Green Wedding A wedding is one of life's major rites of passage. It is certainly something to celebrate! Today, wedding books and magazines promote large weddings so that more and more wedding products can be sold....... Planning a Special Wedding Shower The wedding shower is a traditional party of the marriage process. Often times the bridal party, or the people who have been asked to be in the wedding, will through the party for the couple. Or, oth....... Creating A Wedding Budget You Can Afford The most important part of planning a wedding is setting your budget. Your budget is important because it is next to impossible to know what you can afford for each major part of the wedding if you d....... Earrings Through Time Earrings – I think of them as the finishing touch to your look. They complete your fashion statement. There are earrings for all occasions – the board room, work, casual outings, your wedding, a night on the town, or a day at the beach. They can bring out.... Choosing Your Wedding Colors Wedding dress, flowers, church, reception, cake topper, decorations, music AND wedding colors. Although it sounds daunting, choosing wedding colors is really quite simple. When choosing your wedding ....... Top Ways to Save on Wedding Invitations Some of the first things you’ll spend money on when you decide to get married (besides the ring) are the wedding invitations. While you want your invitations to be classy, unique and of good quality,....... The Value of a Professional Wedding Video Only a trained and experienced wedding videographer is correctly prepared to capture all the details and finer points of your special day, from the rush of preparations at the beginning of the day, t....... The A To Z Guide For Your Wedding Day Attendants Attendants, include the best man, Bridesmaid, ushers, and groomsmen. Generally any people with some sort of responsibility on the big day. How many attendants are up to you but you need to....... How to Significantly Lower Your Wedding Flower Costs When planning a wedding, it is vital to keep in mind that approximately 5-10% of the budget may be consumed by floral costs. Whether your budget is $5000 or $15,000, this percentage is a significant amount considering all of the other things that are bat.... Creating a Terrific Wedding Website for friends and family. Creating a Terrific Wedding Website for friends and family.
The Wedding Aisle - Who is Walking You Down it? Choosing who should walk down the aisle with you is not as easy at it has been in the past. In the past, it has always been assumed that the father of the bride is to be the one. These days, between ....... Wedding Ceremonies – It’s All Down To Detail! Wedding ceremonies are simply not what they used to be. Set patterns and traditional format ceremonies are making way for unique, well thought out wedding ceremonies that are tailored to the individu....... A Wedding Shower Checklist Bridal showers are one of many pre-wedding parties and are great fun. They are known as parties with a purpose. The purpose of a shower is to assist the couple in equipping their new home or for the....... Wedding Vows WELCOME: “Dear family and friends, we are gathered here today in the sight of God to celebrate the marriage of Chris and Christina. “Holy matrimony is an honorable institution instituted by God, regulated by God’s commandments. It signifyies the my.... People Do the Oddest Things We send our best wishes for holidays, birthdays, get well, weddings, and such. Yet, why are we wishing for anything when we could really bless them in prayer? We go into a state of panic when our child is a few minutes late, as if our worry is go.... WHite Doves at Weddings - Bringing Back an Age Old Tradition For thousands of years, white doves have been a traditional symbol in wedding ceremonies. To the ancient Egyptians, the dove represented quiet innocence. The Chinese saw the dove as a symbol of peace and long life. To early Greeks and.... Eight cheap honeymoon ideas for couples on a budget Between paying for the wedding and setting up a new household, many couples find there’s not much money left in their budget for the honeymoon. But who says you have to spend a fortune to enjoy a romantic honeymoon at your dream destination? Here are eigh.... So, You Have A Crockpot. Now You'll Want Crockpot Recipes. To those of us that don't know, crockpot recipes are among the best out there! Did you receive a crockpot as a gift at your wedding shower or perhaps as a birthday gift and have no idea how to use it....... Writing Your Wedding Vows the Way Poets Do Let’s face it, not many of us have the kind of skills or experience to write truly poetic wedding vows. Or do we? Here’s the truth: Even if you don’t know Dylan Thomas from Bob Dylan, and you’re pretty sure T.S. Elliot was that guy who wrote the words to.... Lighting the Way when Two Become One Whether you want to add a little extra romance to an evening reception or a little glow to your house of worship, candles are a natural, effortless addition to your wedding theme. You'll have no trou....... I Need a Wedding Director and a Tux? Well folks, I never thought I’d be writing a column like this one, because quite frankly I never thought I’d be this old. This week’s subject matter is going to be a bit of a surprise, and I’m alread....... How to Plan a Cheap Wedding There’s no doubt about it, weddings can be expensive. The average cost of a wedding today is $20,000 – $25,000, and weddings are estimated to be a $25.3 billion industry. But don’t worry if your bu....... Fitness Tips For Looking Your Best On Your Wedding Day Every bride wants to look perfect on her wedding day. Selecting a dress that will make you look and feel great is an important first step. But what happens when you look in the mirror and don't think....... Celebrate With Butterflies – The Flying Flowers Make your upcoming event the most memorable ever by adding butterflies to your special day. Butterfly Releases are a perfect way to celebrate all of the important occasions in life. They are wonderful additions to weddings, anniversaries, funerals, memori.... Wedding Entertainment - selecting a quality DJ Wedding Entertainment – selecting a Quality DJ By Todd Mumford Months in advance of your wedding ceremony, comes hours and hours of planning – how many people to invite, what food i...... Creating A Wedding Budget You Can Afford The most important part of planning a wedding is setting your budget. Your budget is important because it is next to impossible to know what you can afford for each major part of the wedding if you don’t set an overall cost that is comfortable for you. Yo.... There’s More to Wedding Invitations Than You Might Think Everybody talks about wedding invitations, but what about all the other terms and items that are associated with them. Below are explanations of some of the more common terms and items that you’ll p....... Perfect Gift Idea!! Just Add Your Pictures Need the perfect gift for that hard to buy for person?? Well, this is a must read. I make 6x6 scrapbook albums that all you have to do is add pictures!! I make them in Baby, Boy, Girl, General, and Wedding. I also make them to order. If you would like inf.... History of the Claddagh rings The Claddagh ring is Irelands most romantic and enduring Celtic jewelry tradition. It is customary for the ring to be worn as a wedding or engagement ring and then to be handed down from generation to generation. Claddagh itself is one of Ireland’s old.... For a Romantic Beginning -FOR A ROMANTIC BEGINNING- IF YOU’RE UNDECIDED ON PLANS FOR YOUR WEDDING AND/OR HONEYMOON, JUST CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING IDEAS: SANDALS AND BEACHES “LOVE IS ALL YOU NEED” WeddingMoons Free for couples who stay five nights or l.... Wedding Planning Tips and Tricks Planning a wedding is an exciting thing, and can be very scary. With some basic tips and tricks, you will be sure to make you day special. Be sure to setup your honeymoon at the same time as you set....... Wedding Band, Information and History Of Wedding Bands History and Meaning Of Wedding Bands: The wedding band has been worn as a symbol of marriage for many centuries. Few people know that it was not always a silver or gold wedding band that was worn, th....... Photojournalistic wedding photography Photojournalistic wedding photography Describes what exactly Photojournalistic wedding photography is. Gives visual example About the Author Master professional photographer 15 years experience. Featured photographer at Superstock.com one o.....
Planning a Wedding Made Light Work of with \"The Wedding\'s a Breeze\" Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting and joyful experiences in any person’s life, but it can also be one of the most stressful and time consuming. Professional wedding planning services can be expensive, and by leaving the planning to someone el.... Organising your Wedding Stationery Of all the things you need to do, buy and organize in preparation for your wedding, wedding stationery is something that must be planned ahead. After all, you need to let your guests know well in ad....... Royal Fever Hits the UK! Just days before the much talked about wedding of Charles and Camilla, Royal fever is hitting the UK! Those who don’t get their own personal invite to the wedding in Windsor could try one of the latest ‘royal packages’ from short break specialist, Superbr.... So You're Planning an Outdoor Wedding? The best advice I can give you is to test your ideas in the actual location under realistic conditions to eliminate unpleasant surprises. Work with an experienced coach or wedding consultant if you can, and keep in mind the following things: 1. THE.... Choosing The Right Shoes, Golf Shoes, Wedding Shoes And Other Footwear! Wearing a comfortable pair of shoes is very important if you spend much time on your feet. Whether you’re standing, walking or running, all of your weight falls directly onto the bottom of your feet........ Tips To Make Your Wedding Day Perfect If you were like most little girls, your wedding day was something that was forever in your imagination, a joyous event that would mark a new and exciting era in your life. But in all of your daydrea....... Lost and Found (A Valentine's Day Story) I casually glanced down at my hand, but instead of a wedding ring and an engagement ring, there was only the narrow gold band. "Randy!" I yelped. "My engagement ring is gone." It was Valentine's Day,....... Take Folic Acid Before Getting Pregnant (NC)-Mississauga mother Susan Walsh gives a bottle of multivitamins containing folic acid to the bride-to-be at every wedding shower she attends. This is her way of ensuring that all women take folic....... Top Ten Money Saving Wedding Tips 1. Plan your wedding ceremony and reception in the morning, on a Friday or Sunday night and consider the winter months for all these times and dates will be less expensive. 2. Try to keep your guest....... The Perfect String Quartet Repertoire for your Wedding Here follows suggestions and tips that will help you determine the ideal programme for your Wedding day. A String Quartet can provide music for every stage of your Wedding. First of all, we have the....... TrekShare.com - Crashing a wedding in Laos - Part 1 Any reasonable person would think it slightly off-color to crash a wedding. When that wedding happens to be in Laos who is to say if it’s inappropriate or not? Whom am I kidding? I was well aware of the potential drawbacks of dropping in on an.... Florida Weddings Guide Have you ever dreamed of having the perfect wedding? You picture a tropical paradise surrounded by amazing blue waters, fresh ocean breezes, and beautiful sunsets. It\'s only you, your future spouse, and just a few close friends and family. Well, STO.... |
|
|
Copyright 2006 - 2007 TheWeddingCenterpiece.com |
|